‘The very notion that we are meant to change as little as possible, and even revert back to the women we were before we became mothers is not only unrealistic, but it’s an insult to women of all ages, demographics, shapes, and sizes. It makes a mockery of the powerful passage into one of the most essential roles a human can live into, and it keeps women disempowered through an endless journey of striving for unattainable goals that wouldn’t necessarily serve us even if we could reach them.
The world needs the transformation motherhood brings about it us. The softening, the tenderness, the vulnerability, the shift in prioritization, the depth of love — these are some of the qualities our hurting world needs most.’ Beth Barry
Have a read of this beautiful article by Beth Barry and perhaps you may have a shift in your perspective that there is beauty in not “bouncing back”…
https://revolutionfromhome.com/2016/08/we-arent-meant-to-bounce-back-after-babies/
